Who said it wasn't? We experience ups & downs that produce different outcomes depending on how we view the situation. Nothing good is good when you are pessimistic, and likewise, nothing is bad when you are optimistic.
The single life has always been my unthinkable release. I'm not quite sure how to explain the phrase but it's not a greatest fear nor an unbearable moment in time. But there is one thing that I am sure of and that is I can never imagine myself without a love interest. (LOLs) Whether it is a mutual understanding with the opposite sex, an unrequited love or simply a crush. I know it's so "high school" but I never really changed since then. I may have a slight to extreme alteration in my attitude however I believe that the bottom line is I am still the same me. A mixture or ambivalent feelings yet happy, irrational but weird, boring but fun, shy but out going & a wimp but a fighter.